An angel keeps her daughter's memory alive
By Linda Mondoux
“Dear Val,
I was completely overwhelmed yesterday when I received your beautiful
gift in the mail … It made my day to receive something so wonderful
from a complete stranger …”
If you don’t believe in angels, you might want to drop by to meet
Val Willis. It’s at a sunny apartment off Island Park Drive where
you’ll find the lively 86-year-old composing notes of congratulations
and encouragement to strangers. These she will place in large envelopes,
along with a copy of a book that means the world to her.
She will entrust this precious cargo to Canada Post, which will
deliver the parcels to the homes of students and boy scouts, teachers
and police officers, firefighters cited for bravery and housewives
building schools in Africa. They will also find their way into
the hands of famous authors, ambassadors and even royalty. After
all, this is no time to be timid; Mrs. Willis is on a mission.
In opening the gifts, these strangers will be keeping alive the
spirit of a young woman whose love of horses is now helping find
a cure for cancer. But just as important, Mrs. Willis hopes her
gifts will inspire the recipients to fulfil their own dreams, just
as her daughter did when she opened Willaway Farm, a riding stable
in Almonte, in 1998.
“I’m interested in having people enjoy the book,” Mrs. Willis
says of My Horse, My Passion, the illustrated riding tips guide
published in 2004, almost 40 years after it was penned by her daughter,
Kenra, then an 11-year-old, in a school scribbler. “Reading inspires
dreams.”
When this newspaper last caught up with Mrs. Willis in September
2004, she had sold the first 1,000 books printed a few months earlier
in memory of Kenra, who died of cancer in 2003 at age 49. Since
then, with the sale of books from a second printing, Mrs. Willis
has helped raise just shy of $10,000 for the Canadian Cancer Society.
The former teacher has a framed certificate of appreciation from
the cancer society on her wall, along with letters from the Queen
and Princess Anne, both accomplished horse riders, congratulating
her on her “labour of love.”
Now, with about 50 books left, Mrs. Willis is out to “have fun”
with it. That involves countless hours spent scouring newspapers
for stories of “people helping people,” or anyone the one-time
owner and operator of Wilvaken, a private educational centre in
Quebec, feels would benefit from Kenra’s book.
For a woman “of a certain age,” as one stranger wrote in a thank-you
note, Mrs. Willis has more energy than most university students.
She doesn’t just walk to answer the phone or retrieve a file folder
from the office — she runs. But then, she also cross-country skis
and, soon, you’ll find her on the greens at the Royal Ottawa Golf
Club. You’ll also find her each week at the National Gallery of
Canada, where, in her 20th year as a docent, she gives tours to
school groups and the public.
Almost as a footnote, Mrs. Willis mentions how she was forced
to slow down for a spell in March 2005, when she had a heart attack
after a day of skiing. “I had a double bypass,” she says matter-of-factly.
“I’m a happy survivor.”
Indeed. Her enthusiasm is catchy. Even her dog, Tori, seems to
be smiling.
“I’m having a ball,” Mrs. Willis beams. “Because I never know
what to expect. Every day is a surprise day, which makes it fun.”
Her letters to strangers have turned into stacks and stacks of
thank-yous, from handwritten notes and cards to e-mails and lovingly
drawn pictures of horses from young fans. There are notes from
retired general Lewis MacKenzie, then-U.S. ambassador Paul Cellucci,
author Frances Itani, Canadian spelling bee winner Finola Hackett,
Order of Canada recipient Grete Hale, Gov. Gen. Michaëlle Jean,
Laureen Harper, wife of the prime minister, and dozens of teachers,
principals and schoolchildren whose efforts are detailed in the Citizen’s monthly
Raise-a-Reader feature.
Many of those “strangers” are now friends, sending Christmas cards
and regular e-mails, issuing invites to visit and enjoying lunch
with Mrs. Willis at her golf club.
And while it’s not everyone who can boast letters from the Royal
Family, it’s a note from a Montreal teenager that Mrs. Willis most
treasures.
“My aunt just purchased this book called My Horse, My Passion
for my 17th birthday … I started horseback riding at about age
eight and recently lost interest in it because of a terrible
tragedy that befell upon our family. In 2001, my mother passed
away from cancer at age 52.
“… Kenra’s book has inspired me to continue my love affair
with horses. In fact, I am planning to contact Wilvaken this
afternoon in regards to a summer job in the stables.
“I just wanted to share the effect your daughter’s story has
had on me and how she inspired me to pursue my passion …”
Note to Mrs. Willis: Keep up the good work. You’re an angel.
Published in The Ottawa Citizen on March 28, 2007
www.canada.com/ottawacitizen/
NOTE: Since I interviewed Val, we have become
friends. I was lucky enough to help celebrate her 87th birthday
with her and her new “family” — the folks who bought Kenra’s farm
— where I witnessed the birthday girl saddling up for a horse ride!
Below you will find a copy of Val’s inspiring New Year’s message
sent to friends in January 2008.
Here are 12 reasons why 2007 has been exceptionally happy for
me because I am :
- Continuing to give tours at our magnificent National Gallery
(20 years).
- Distributing the THIRD 1000 copies of My Horse, My Passion,
written by Kenra at age 11.
- Being deluged with e-mails and letters describing My Horse,
My Passion, as "Beautiful".
- Making delightful new friends through distribution of My Horse,
My Passion.
- Working at a permanent memorial to Kenra at the Almonte Hospital
where she spent the last two months of her life after the Cancer
Society received $10,000 from the unique book.
- Learning that the precious little book has cantered to England,
France, Holland, China, etc.
- Holding a Driver's Licence at age 87 after 2 successful eye
operations in September '07.
- Broadening my horizons with a sometimes disheartening Dell
computer.
- Enjoying golf, X-C skiing, bridge and friendships at the Royal
Ottawa Golf Club.
- Loving the freshness of early morning walks with my 13 yr.
old 4-legged friend, Tori.
- Celebrating birthdays at what was Kenra's Dream-of-a-Lifetime
Willaway Farm in Almonte. (New owner, Susan Allan, assisted me
in mounting a horse on Sept. 30th, the big 87th!)
- Relishing the fortnightly gourmet dinners at the lovely Ottawa
home of Susan's family, the Mullingtons, all of whom have greatly
added to my happiness during the past five years.
MERRY CHRISTMAS! HAPPY NEW YEAR!